Formal dress, evening wear, cocktail attire, resort
wear --
Ever been confused by a tricky dress code? Never
again!
How to Attend
Any Function, Anywhere
Appropriately Dressed
Weddings, Reunions,
Performances, Parties
-- How to Get it Right Every Time
What should you wear to a wedding? A
graduation? A Broadway play?
If terms like formal
wear, black tie
optional, or fancy
dress are confusing because you don't
attend such functions regularly, you might wonder what's
appropriate -- particularly if you've ever made a
stab-in-the-dark guess in the past and been wrong. You
want to show appropriate respect for the occasion and/or the
person being honored, AND you want to look
good.
If you'll be attending an event that puts
you in the spotlight or impacts your career, like
speaking for a group or attending a charity ball or a
red carpet event, you simply can't afford to get it
wrong.
So what should you wear?
Obviously, it depends on
the event. Formal occasions call for formal
wear, casual occasions call for casual
wear. But...
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Is a wedding on the
beach considered formal -- or
casual?
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How about going for
cocktails with co-workers -- or attending a cocktail
party at the boss's
house?
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What should you wear to
the ballet? Is it different for opening night? (It
is).
It's these little nuances that can
make all the difference in getting things right. If you
rarely attend such functions and these kinds of events pull you
completely out of your comfort zone, you may be stressing over
what's appropriate.
With just cause.
For when you’re
dressed appropriately for an even, you can put your appearance
out of your mind and concentrate on other things, like
networking, furthering relationships, making memories, and the
like. But when you’re
dressed inappropriately,
you feel like all eyes are on you, like you’re standing on the
outside looking in at everyone else who knows something you
don’t.
“The well-dressed
man is he whose
clothes you never notice.”
--W. Somerset
Maugham
Knowing what to wear and
what not to wear when shouldn’t be a
mystery. Fifty
years ago, it wasn’t. People were taught what was
appropriate when, and photographs and movies from that era
tell the tale.
But we’ve become a lot
more casual since then. Dress codes have
relaxed. We
don’t wear hats and gloves anymore unless it’s to protect us
from the elements, and “dinner and dancing” involves trendy
appetizers and strobe lights instead of multi-course meals
and a big band sound. A lot of people report to
work in clothes that our grandmothers would never have left
the house in, and formal wear, for many people, amounts to a
tie for him and high heels for her.
Is it any wonder that we
get confused sometimes and mess up?
Unfortunately, the
consequences of not knowing what to wear can be
costly. Some of
the missed opportunities I’ve seen
include:
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Losing out on jobs or
promotions
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Being barred from
entering meetings or
functions
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Being detained at the
door while credentials are
verified
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Being
ignored
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Receiving poor
service
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Being ridiculed in the
press
In truth, dressing
inappropriately can be more than just embarrassing;
it can mark you as being unschooled – even if you’re highly
educated – and cause you to be dismissed from consideration
from many things without a second
thought.
But it doesn’t have to
be that way.
You don’t have to go
through life crossing your fingers and hoping for the best when an
unfamiliar situation comes along. You don’t have to endure
that “uh-oh” feeling when you step out of your car in the parking
lot and see a bunch of people headed to the same function as you
but dressed in a completely different manner. You don’t even have to
pack your entire closet when you travel, hoping you’ll have brought
something
appropriate.
All you need to do to
dress appropriately for any function is to understand its
level of formality, and what’s appropriate for that
location.
Sound
simple? It is –
once you know what to look
for.
Introducing…Occasion
Magic
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Occasion Magic is
the latest addition to my popular Wardrobe Magic series,
and it specifically addresses the many "What should I wear ...?"
questions that I get from my clients and readers,
like:
“What should I wear to a
wedding?”
“What should I wear
to my class reunion?”
“What should I wear
for my vacation in
Italy?” |
The answers may seem
straightforward, but they really aren’t. My answer is usually, “It
depends.” It
depends on the time, the location, what you’ll be doing, who
you’ll be with – the list goes on and on. What might be suitable at
one hour may be inappropriate for another. Or change the location and
the necessary attire changes as
well.
Sound
confusing?
It can be. But there’s no need to be
alarmed.
Occasion Magic
shows you how to pin down those answers and eliminate the
confusion.
You’ll
learn:
The different levels of formality, from
least formal to most formal (including the different names
these levels are known by)
Why the hour of 6 p.m. is so
important
How to "read between the lines" of an invitation
to discern the unspoken dress code
Why the location of the function can make a big
difference in what you wear
What to expect in different places all over the
world
Once you know these
pertinent details, you’ll never look at an invitation
the same way again.
You’ll also never head
out the door in “any old thing” again because you’ll have a
keen understanding of what to expect once you get
there.
Next,
Occasion Magic
puts this information to use in a variety of common – and
not-so-common – situations so you can see what’s appropriate
for a wide range of activities, from barbecues, school,
and church functions to polo matches and movie
premieres. Heck,
you’ll even know what’s appropriate to wear to the White
House, Congress, or Parliament should the occasion
ever arise (and it
might).
By the time you’re done, you’ll know what to
wear to:
Child-related functions, like baby showers, school plays,
field trips, and graduations
Cultural events, like the ballet, opera, or
museum
Entertain, whether you’re hosting a backyard
barbecue or a catered affair
Holiday events, like Chinese New Year, Mardi Gras,
or Bastille Day
Parties, including garden parties, tailgate
parties, or class reunions
Recreational activities, like dates, shopping, or
going to a concert
Religious events, like Christenings, First
Communions, and Bar/Bat Mitzvahs
Seasonal activities, like sleigh rides, crabbing,
or water skiing
Serious Stuff, like funerals, court appearances, or
an IRS audit
Sporting activities, like tennis, golf, and NASCAR
events
Travel, whether you’re going across town or around
the world
Weddings, from
backyards to ballrooms
… and much, much
more.
In all, you’ll see more than a hundred different
ways to apply the levels of formality in your life, to ensure that
wherever you go or whatever you do, you’ll be properly dressed once
you get there.
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By
the time you’re done reading Occasion
Magic, you’ll see your wardrobe in a whole new
light, and have a level of understanding about dressing that
will serve you well for years to come. Others will marvel at your
clothing savvy, and you may very well be surprised at all the
new twists and turns your life may take as a result of
dressing appropriately. Men will stop and hold the
door for you more often. Women will ask your opinion
about all sorts of things. You’ll be called on for
leadership
positions.
Sound crazy? It’s not. I’ve had clients and
readers report this phenomenon time and again. When you clearly know how
to dress appropriately for everything, people simply
assume that you know a lot about a lot of things and accord
you the proper respect. Like a gypsy with a crystal
ball knowing what to expect at every turn, employing a little
occasion magic of your own can bring you unexpected
rewards.
But don’t take my word
for it. Here’s
what others have said about my services, my ezine, and other
books in the Wardrobe Magic
series:
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"If I didn't tell you (and it bears telling again), your advice
on dressing for my law school reunion was excellent. I felt
fabulous. Because I was wearing a shawl that was wearable art, I
sought out a woman there (who is also the wife of the Chancellor of
the Philadelphia Bar) whom I'd met at a fundraiser at Moore College
of Art. She suggested I might want to serve on their Board. Me? A
board? Life after fifty, who knew?
Thanks for all your help."
Carol Fritz
Philadelphia, PA |
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Wonders never cease! After radically overhauling my wardrobe,
with your advice, several interesting things have happened. You may
remember that back in June I was given the opportunity to be
interviewed on TV about my profession, physiotherapy. This week I
was offered tickets, out of the blue, to the closing gala of the
Toronto International Film Festival and to the after party! My
prior "crunchy granola" look never got me these kind of
opportunities.
Thanks for the advice, it really seems to be making a huge
difference!
A few days later...
Just checking in to let you know how the Gala went. We had a GREAT
time. The movie we saw was 'Amazing Grace' by Michael Apted.
"The after party was even better, we snagged passes to the VIP
section and got to say hello to the director. Demi Moore and Ashton
Kutcher were there but off in another area. I ended up renting a
beautiful full-length beaded navy blue dress with a low back. I'm
glad I did as it was quite the swanky affair and I got lots of
compliments!
"Thanks again for all the great advice."
Kathleen S.
Toronto, Canada |
| "I was a bit dubious about ordering
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Filled with lots of
illustrations and pictures to help you learn and understand,
Occasion Magic may
become one of the most-referenced books in your digital
library.
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Whether you’re climbing
the corporate ladder, working from home, chauffeuring kids,
going to school, basking in the limelight, or quietly
enjoying your retirement, you’ll be able to use the
information to quickly determine what’s appropriate to wear
for any occasion you encounter.
Discover savvy insider
tips like:
His and her dress codes for formal
affairs
Which cities are very fashion-conscious, and which
couldn’t care less about clothes
Why clothing points to your origins almost as
easily as an accent
Which cultures
still require formal evening attire come
sunset
What to wear to get the best service at
restaurants
The best clothes to wear when you go
shopping
How to dress for the same function at different
venues
The one clothing element that will gain you
admittance to most sports clubs – or leave you out in the
cold if you don’t have it
How to discern
a dress code when none is mentioned on the
invitation
What terms like “formal”, “black-tie creative”, and
“LA Trendy” really
mean
How to make the same outfit look different for
different functions so you can stretch your budget to
unbelievable lengths
What to wear to a movie – or to a movie premiere
(different dress codes)
Which casinos allow shorts, and which require
formal attire
Why you should have a pedicure before traveling to
this certain part of the world
Places where bare shoulders, shorts, and flipflops
won’t garner a second look – or where they’ll keep you
off the premises
What to wear to horse-related events, from rodeos
to Royal Ascot
How moving a
function outside can change the formality
level
The simple secret to filling your social
calendar
… and much, much
more!
Once you’ve read
Occasion Magic,
you’ll understand why the people who take the time to dress
appropriately seem to move to “the front of the line” in
life, while those with the “here’s-how-I-dress,
like-it-or-lump-it” approach to dressing end up with all
those nasty lumps. Why settle for second-rate
when first-class is so easily within your reach? My clients and readers have
discovered this delightful advantage time and again, and
there’s no reason why you can’t
either.
"I wanted to let you know how helpful
all the information in your books and e-zines has been to me,
personally. Since beginning my job in June, I have been promoted to
Office Manager, asked to speak at Board Meetings and Luncheons,
invited to attend Nursing school at the Center's expense, and just
received a rarely given payraise! While much of it is due to a
strong work ethic - I believe my wardrobe has definitely helped. As
a counselor I am to dress casual, which you and I both know does
not mean slobby. My attire is definitely more appropriate than that
of my much younger peers who still believe that ratty jeans and
flip-flops are fine for the office. Many of them have been there
for years, and not one has been asked to speak before the board, or
been offered the opportunities I have. And many of them are better
qualified counselors than I, with Masters Degrees in psychology and
sociology. Just thought I would share that little story with
you!
Looking forward to the new books!" |
Laura Broughton
La Porte, IN |
"I just wanted to let you know that I
had success with your advice from Business Wear
Magic. I was on a symposium this week end and I used your
advice and packed 'capsules'. The dress was tailored casual. I felt
right at home and was complemented many times on my clothes and was
told I looked 'great.' I felt that I got the look right, some
people in jeans and T's but all the top people had tailored pants
and collared shirts and jackets. Thanks to your advice I fit right
in with the big wigs. I felt confident and overall things went very
well.
"I started to notice who 'gets it' and who doesn't. I'm glad to
say, thanks to you, I've made the transition into the first
group." |
Kathleen S.
Pickering, Ontario
Canada |
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If you hired an image
consultant to come to your home, teach you the levels of
formality and help you get your closet in order, as I do in
Occasion Magic,
you could expect to pay anywhere from $50 to $200
per hour, depending on where you live and the
consultant’s level of expertise. If you had no idea where to
start or you needed her to help you shop for appropriate
pieces, that time could add up
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